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Do you think that age could be a great obstacle in relationships ?

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      24-05-2017 12:11
    Hi you all , it's May 24th 2017 and I am insisting on the date because we are still keeping all of our traditions and opinions especially when it's about marriage.
    First let's deal with something , some men say they like fat women , others prefer skinny women or may be something in between . Doesn't that lead to a preference in age as well ? We are familiar with presidents marrying young models. much younger ones. And we are also familiar with male presidents who marry older women . Take Macron as an Example , he and Brigitte have 25 years difference . Damn it lol
    And then we have Tunisians. We are clear on one point . Every girl who marries a much older man is just a greedy w,s,b ! Ok let's avoid bad words. That's what our culture thinks and i somehow do too. sometimes.

    We say that foreign people know how to love and we read stuff saying that love doesn't know age .

    Now I know what you think . If we catch a 70 years old flirting with a 25 years old girl then we would say he is abusing her and she is a victim. What if I say that they both are victims? she might is just playing around to get a fortune , she might be really the bad guy and he is the victim ( sort of ) because he believed she has feelings for him and his shitty mind made him want to may be hook up with her. Well whatever.

    What I want to say is . What is the maximum age difference that is tolerated by Tunisians between a man and a woman ?

    Some thinks it is 10 , others 15 but none dared to say 20 lol . Is 20 overrated ? Mm thinking of it , I think 10-14 is what is accepted.

    Now imagine you are offered to marry Angelina Jolie and you are 30 years younger , I bet you would agree , wouldn't you , or you girls are offered to marry Brad Pitt who is 15 or 17 years older! I would marry my idol Sylvester stallone who is 71 years old but well if the same aged men tries to approach me , I would suicide . How do you explain this ? Is it just because they are our idols that we tolerate their age ?

    Ok I just wanna hear your comments.

    Thanks you all !
     
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      24-05-2017 15:16
    Each one has his view in this matter but sadly whether we want it or not our views are influenced by the patterns of thought put by our environment and by environment I mean historical heritage, social customs, media... Ect
    Than I'll skip this part cause I already know everyone knows and jump to my personal opinion.
    I personally think that every human being has his own version of how a romantic relationship is or must be and that's of course influenced by his psychological composition.
    Going back to your topic I don't think that age is a key factor that determines a successful relationship coz personally I think that our definition of life is nothing but a set of perspectives and once someone finds another person who shares his same perspectives than and only than he'll find love and by love I mean the ultimate form of it coz sadly many people reduced this notion to the superficial emotions and above all to the physical aspect but I think that all of these are just mere ingredients to reach the real realm of love which is the mental and spiritual and you can't reach that with someone who doesn't share your fundamental perspectives of life.
    Therefore age is irrelevant coz everything is in the mind this miracle created by God.
     
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      24-05-2017 15:29
    Mmm I agree with you but what you are saying is just so perfect that it cannot be practiced. we talk to older people and younger ones , sometimes we see ourselves in them and that we match perfectly and we say oh I wish you were older or you was younger. I personally got the I wish you were older many times and the stupid remark of do you have an older sister couple of times. Why do we say beautiful things and then we just go with the flow :)
     
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      24-05-2017 15:56
    You got a point there but I'll say it once again : It's all a matter of personal perspectives
     
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    In my opinion marriage is an enterprise, sort of partnership if you prefer...if age is no obstacle to your goals... Then be it.... Now your goals might be noble, evil,or even both... As long as you're honest with yourself and your partner, then it's ok
     
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      21-01-2018 22:50
    not really.. but intergenerational relations in general is quite difficult thus there are always some exceptions..
    Age is just a number, what matters is how each partner accepts others
    differences (it's basically the same as what it is with same generation partners)
    Now about your question "What is the maximum age difference that is tolerated by Tunisians between a man and a woman?"
    there are no maximum as Tunisian (and Muslims particularly) used to marry young teens to old men (the opposite was a matter of exceptions).. But in modern Tunisia women are more independent and prefer a same generation partner.
     
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      03-04-2018 20:55
    yeeeeeeeeeeeees
     
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