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The Dilemma of Violence

الموضوع في 'English & French Archive' بواسطة Abuyassine, بتاريخ ‏20 ديسمبر 2008.

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      20-12-2008 15:19
    violence is a phenomenon no one can deny. It happens everyday in front of our eyes hither & thither in our streets. And the people engaged in it are of all ages. I really wonder why it happens. Is it because of the ever-changing complicated modes of living ? Perhaps. Or does it happen due to the fact that people like to express their inner urges & emotions through the violence channel ? You would say to me that it occurs the world over. Yes, I do agree with you. But I feel that lots of those who resort to it are victims of Western movies. They wrongly think they become "free" through it. They similarly see that it does help them be "true men." Moreover, many view it as an escape that gets them away from the stresses & pressures of everyday life & changes their moods. Is it true, dear brethren ? What about you ? Do you often resort to it ? And do you view any other causes behind such a horrifying danger ?

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    Forrest Gump كبير مراقبي منتدى الفرنسيّة و الانقليزيّة طاقم الإدارة

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      20-12-2008 20:57
    hey there, how are you doing? as usual one other intersting topic from our dear brother Chedli.
    well, i guess we all agree about how bad or negative is violance. however we should also i agree that violance is one part of us that we cant deny and i think that the issue is how to manipulate violance and to control it and this is becoming more and more diffuclt specially because of (as it's mentioned) the effect of media..
    im not a pacifist person but i cant accept the spread of this "phenomenon"
     
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    I'd like to thank you dear Forrest Gump for your interest in the topic & reasonable view. I just like to know how to tackle this problem. Let's ,for example, begin with children. They are innocent & angel-like creatures. How can we teach them to be peaceful & calm people ? Your answers mean a lot to me, dear brethren

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    Forrest Gump كبير مراقبي منتدى الفرنسيّة و الانقليزيّة طاقم الإدارة

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    thanks a lot dear brother.... it sounds really great to have a peaceful and calm generation but personnaly i dont want them to be very peaceful or very calm cause im afraid that they would be also passive and here im not saying that we have to be violent inorder not to be passive...answering your question Mr.chedli i strongly believe that there are 3 keys here that can help to make our dreams come true, these keys are families,education and media.for the first one,i dont think that we have problems since the majority of parents these days are well educated but for the others i think we must re-built them again cause they are doing nothing but helping those little children to be passive...etc
    (i was hesitating to write the 4th key (the most important) but i will without discussing it for he sake of the forum rules, it's democracy
     
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      20-12-2008 22:17
    Dear Forrest Gump,

    I will expand further dealing with your 3 keys.

    * Family:
    It can be a powerful generator of violence. Children, from their early years, notice everything- both consciously & unconsciously. Disputes, arguments & quarrels that happen between parents have a great impact on the psyche of their children who save those miserable pictures for later years to be awaken in the form of a violent personality. Parents should bear that in mind & should/ must abstain from different sorts of violence in front of their sons & daughters.

    * Education :
    I don't see exactly how this field may represent a source of violence. It probably does due to the fact that schools are a very telling space for a large number of children. And their everyday contacts would prompt them to share lots of views about various issues. Thus, they do not necessarily agree all the time on such & such a topic. They may disagree & dispute harshly with one another. To stop or let's say lessen this, a varied & encouraging syllabus is really needed for the improvement of these complicated & delicate relationships. That's what I frankly see in the new programmes that preach tolerance & the need for sharing and welcoming other people's views. Teachers, alike, would be very helpful in giving a hand to their students & teaching them the beautiful & colourful culture of being different.

    * Media :
    The role of the media is quite remarkable in teaching children to be violent or peaceful. I personally view that children are not conscious & responsible & wise enough to choose appropriately for themselves the right programmes. Consequently, it's the role of the parents that should be efficient. They have to intervene positively before it's too late. Of course, as you say, the majority of parents today have an acceptable level & are educated & cultivated enough to help their kids go through the proper channels

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