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Forgiveness

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  1. fahmi alila

    fahmi alila نجم المنتدى

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      02-01-2009 14:56
    hi buddies, I need help I need your opinion about something... could you please help me??


    When a relationship between two people may stop due to a fault between these two, then everyone will choose a path to his own. But this "love" remains in our hearts and in our thoughts. So do you think that it is logical to return after this long period and ask forgiveness? Or we can say "tefid be ih ya NADAM ." Because we are not sure the other still loves us more than we can forgive or not. Indeed it is a question of dignity .... especially if the person who wants to ask forgiveness is the woman!
    What do you say?
     
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  2. issam19

    issam19 كبير مراقبي منتدى المكتبة الالكترونية طاقم الإدارة

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      02-01-2009 15:37
    C'est dans notre culture en tant musulman d'avoir l'esprit du pardon

    Croyez moi, et ceci est ma logique

    Ce qui demande le pardon n'est jamais celui qu'on nommerait de faible

    Autrement dit, même si on n'est pas fautif

    Si on arrive à se moquer de notre orgueil

    ça sera signe d'extrême force

    Ceci étant dit, lorsqu'il s'agit de mal entendu entre homme et femme

    L'important est à mon avis est

    la manière et la bonne volonté de réparer
     
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  3. falfés

    falfés عضو فعال

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      02-01-2009 15:53
    alright pal i dont know how to start this but okay i'll just go straight & explain my point & give my advice hoping to be helpfull for you brother .
    i've been in the same situation before & i broke up with my partner because of a big mistake she made but then after a while she came back asking for forgiveness & i couldn't forgive her as i wasnt ready & what she done was too big to be forgiven for & i really believe the old scottish saying : once a cheater always a cheater
    so what i wanna say is the forgiveness depends on the size of the maden mistakes & the amount of hurt you been through after what happend etc

    no one else can decide or advice u what to do coz its you that lived the situation & you are the only one that can decide wether to go back or to never look back ;)
    good luck brother.
     
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  4. rania_ingenieura

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      02-01-2009 20:58
    L'erreur est humaine et le pardon n'est pas une chose facile à demander. Si l'autre est convaincu que ce pardon est sincere et s'il tient à cette relation, si les sentiments sont encore là, alors on peut repartir à nouveau.
    Mais ce pardon ne doit pas etre utilisé comme une arme par celui qui a été offensé et il faut se dire qu'une nouvelle page est tournée.
    Dignité? Le fait de demander pardon sincerement prouve à l'autre qu'on l'aime et c'est alors à lui de savoir si cette dignité touchée a plus de valeur que cet amour!!
     
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  5. hadbaoui

    hadbaoui عضو جديد

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      02-01-2009 22:42
    If you love something set it free, If it returns it's yours forever, if it doesn't ..it wasn't yours to be with
     
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  6. Mr.charfy

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      03-01-2009 03:08
    :besmellah1:
    we in tunisia say
    forgiveness is in court

    lol
    what is done cannot be undone



     
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      03-01-2009 15:06
    I think that forgiveness should prevail in spite of all the hurts and the wounds that are left unhealed. But forgiving is not as much important as FORGETTING

    I can forgive but I don't think that I'll be able to forget

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  8. miss442

    miss442 عضو مميز

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      04-01-2009 15:00
    I think we should fight for our love & beloved even if you both have faced problems_that make you stop your relation_when you think of asking forgiveness just do it & don't think about the other's reaction (will he/she forgive me or not!!) because that won't never help you!
    :satelite:
     
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