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Why is it so difficult to fall out of love??

الموضوع في 'English & French Archive' بواسطة sousoukhaled, بتاريخ ‏5 مارس 2009.

  1. sousoukhaled

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      05-03-2009 22:31
    please my freinds i have a question to you and really i need your help
    To fall in love is so easy. Why is it so difficult to fall out of love???
    So many discussions, fears....
    I don’t want to hurt the person I’ve been with, because it’s not that there is no feeling. I’m so confused.

    Can you say something?

    [​IMG]
    thanks a lot​
     
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  2. Forrest Gump

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      05-03-2009 22:37
    sorry khaled i didnt get you, do you mean you want to break up with your girl-friend but you dont want to hurt her
    ???
    and, it's not really easy to fall in love,i guess
     
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      05-03-2009 22:58
    Yes this is near the point Forrest

    Sometimes when we are together, I feel that I’m crazy about her

    But on my own, I stop thinking about

    I’m really confused ​
     
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      05-03-2009 23:09
    maybe both of you need a break; maybe a week (no "rendez-vous", no calls,no mails, no sms) i guess then things can be clearer and you can have the right decision but try to be honest with her and tell her what do you feel
     
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      05-03-2009 23:12
    Dear Khaled,

    What you've written has kept me boiling & thinking over and over again. But believe me, I do frankly wish these thoughts will be erased definitely from your mind. I would say perhaps there's an inner non-conviction inside you. Perhaps your relationship needs more talks & going outs. Perhaps you're not totally on the right path. Perhaps - and I am sorry- you've made the wrong choice. But what has shocked me is your mentioning of the falling out. What the hell is this , Khaled ? You had so long told me about your fantastic love & you I have always seen the joy in your eyes. I would advise you not to hurry & not to jump to conclusions, for that would undermine lots of things. Take your time, brother & try to analyze things reasonably & logically. But I'm sure of something : you've made the right choice according to what you told me.

    Best wishes from your ever-loving friend
     
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      06-03-2009 09:50
    Hi KHALID, before taking any decision that may hurt your girlf-friend, I advice you to think about two things.first why you love her? and why you want to leave her?
    when you find the exact answers,things will be more clear for you and certainly you will do the best action.
    Don't forget that it is not easy to find the real love.:frown:
     
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      06-03-2009 20:07
    Hello there,

    keep things clear and easy.
     
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      07-03-2009 00:59
    I think that the inverse is right khaled.. it's not easy to fall in love but it's easy to fall out of it...
    it's difficult for the first case because it's not evident at all to find our soul mate with him we share sincere love ..and it's easy to fall out because i think that we should have serious and strong causes that push us to definitively give up this person.. so these reasons make it easy..

    But here dear khaled you are not convinced by the reasons and i can say that you are suffering of that??

    you said here two crucial things:

    "I feel that I’m crazy about her"
    and
    "I don’t want to hurt the person I’ve been with, because it’s not that there is no feeling
    "
    i think you have too much feeling for her.. you care about her and you are in love with her..
    but as you said you are so much confused my friend.. may be this perturbation is not caused only by your relation.. it could be by many other factors..in this case you must not have any decision about that to don't regret it in the future..
    ok.. i agree that there is some thing wrong.. you must search it together, you and her.. together khaled.. don't be alone, don't think alone.. try to share with her your daily concerns..

    As Bravexx said to you.. take your time and take your time.. give up for the moment this "black" idea.. give to you both another chance.. and surely you will do the right thing ..
    [​IMG]
     
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      07-03-2009 16:26
    Thanks a lot my friends for your help

    Yes Besma you’re right, my perturbation is not caused only by this relation...
    The other suffering problem is my family (especially my mother) they are totally against this relation.

    I do not want to share this problem with my girl
    I don’t want to make her suffering
    And in the same time I can’t stop this relation (that’s why I said it’s so difficult to fall out of your love)

    I am alone in this, and there is no one can help me…





     
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